Tuesday, December 9, 2008

Stupid people

Today I am writting all about stupid people, and I think we all know a few. You know the people who pretend to be inocent yet cause all the problems, people who make rude insensitive comments yet never apologize. People who pretend to be your friend, yet don't have a friendly bone in their body. Anyone who doesn't know my husband recently died and I have had the "privelidge" of having some of the rudest comments made to me and around me for example: "I could only declutter if my husband died" or how are you dealing with this so well- I would be a wreak.
I am not dealing with this well-or at all for that matter I am just trying to get by. There are going to be days I don't want to talk about what happened, not because I don't care but because I am tyring to mourn and deal with the fact I have to get not just myself but my kids through Christmas and the rest of our lives without the man we though would be with us forever. So, I for one realizing what I am going through have realized that other people could be going through there own set of trials am going to vow and ask everyone else to think before you talk and spread a little cheer and happiness. Thank you and Merry Christmas.

1 comment:

Jackie said...

You sound a little angry sister. Hope you can calm down. There are always going to be those kinds out there. Remember when I was pregnant with the quads and waiting in the waiting room. That couple came in and saw the picture of quads on the wall and he said that was his worst nightmare. I creid and thought well I guess that would be me then your worst nightmare. We are each human and are bound to be stupid sometimes and say things we regret probably more times than we should. We just need to think twice before speaking. Love to you, Jackie